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I, for one, will greatly miss RabidWolf... Both his IceWorld tiles and Wasp enemies I am currently using in my upcoming D-Mod. I am really... at a loss of words... Though I try, I do not think that I can emotionally relate. I am quite introverted, and dislike being outside my home or with other people- I am slightly autistic- I'm 17 and I still have never had a girlfriend... but still, I am empathatic and it painfully ruptures me to hear this... I myself have been working to recover from the fire that completely destroyed our old house- along with all my belongings... It is a slow process... I still cannot sleep at night, and steal sleep during the middle of the day. Also- I don't hate you for what you have done- I still think your brilliant- Many of us have done stupid things in the past and I am very impressed that you were brave enough to so frank with us. Most people I have known have not been so honest and reasonable...

That's a pretty amazing confession. In cases like these, it's best not to argue whether a story is fact or fiction. What matters is that it is a truly remarkable story.

Edit: I'm replying to rabidwolf, if that's not clear.

I sure hope you'll stay rabidwolf9. You made 10 great files! That will not be forgotten.

Maybe you should let her read your post and she'll understand how you feel about her. Everyone makes mistakes. It's normal that a male has desire for sex that’s just nature. It may have been a bad thing but I'm sure this happened to more people you can't be blamed for it. It just happened. So it's not a reason for her to leave you permanently. Maybe she just has to think over it and recover from the blow and then she might get back to you if she really loves you.

Sorry to hear this, man. But if there's a God, she'll come back to you. And if there isn't, well, then it might be a good time to start a new life as an atheist.

By the way, what the hell is wrong with watching porn with a friend and masturbating? I mean, it's pretty disgusting, but what does she have to do with it? It's not that it's offending or anything. If you ask me, it's a pretty crappy reason to leave someone, and there'd be a big chance she would've left you for a different reason someday.

And if you're making this up, then yay.

If you have lost everything in life, the best solution would be to try and build it all up again. No matter how depressed you are after all that. It's hard, but better than always having to live with all that you have lost. You'll manage to find someone to fill another gap if you try, but don't rely on just one person for stuff like that, it's barely enough support if one leaves you.

My uncle has experience with being alone. After a long time he finally found his girl and his life, and he's as happy as can get. He never lost hope in any of that.

Also, if these forums are some kind of support to you, or at least relief, DO keep stopping by for relief. But most of all, try making the best in real life of course.

I hope it's not true... not because what you did was 'wrong' or 'disgusting'... not because you released 10 files... not because of God or hell or even the girl... because once you get to that place, it's awfully hard to get out, and I wouldn't wish that on anyone.

You're missing one small part. They weren't just masturbating. They were masturbating each other. I'm sure the difference is rather huge to the girl.

Well, so what? It was years before that relation, so I really can't see what it has to do with the girl in the first place.

The 'story' was real, but now it's okay. Things are now indeed restored to the rightful position. We are indeed back together and are happy again.

Well, so what? It was years before that relation, so I really can't see what it has to do with the girl in the first place.
I wish to clarify:

Our relationship started before the incident, but ended due to me being hacked and someone saying that I had found someone in person, and then went on to give GREAT details The timing of it was horrible and we weren't able to keep in touch much after that happened. She got a boyfriend to make me jealous. It wasn't until recently I just figured this out. I loved her so much that I let her go because she said that she was happy with him. In my heart I concluded that she deserved to be happy. So that's what happened to end the first years of our relationship as our communication source was cut off. The 'incident' happened inbetween us separating, and getting back together two years later when we had the ability to communicate once more. She didn't do anything 'wrong' in that time, I did.

As for staying, don't expect much more from me, I plan to be laid back about Dink now, but the community is just too nice to leave. I wasn't really expecting so many responses. Seeing them, even from the dinkers that I haven't yet associated with, well, it makes me feel all warm and fuzzy on the inside But really, you guys are the best. I read some replies when it was still goin on and couldn't help but smile at the kindness of you all.

EDIT: never mind, waited too long to post

Your not the first, and you won't be the last to have regrets. Hell, if I could go back and change some things, or restart at some point.... But that's the thing, you can't. You go forward, and you deal with what you have. And never, ever be timid. Because the worst that can happen is that someone will say no. And that doesn't mean you can't do it anyways.

too bad life doesnt have savebots huh?

She's a homophobe perhaps? Even if it was just young experimentation with no homosexual feelings; she may be disgusted by it if she's got homophobia. It's a phobia after all.

I'm glad it's all back to normal again. And don't forget to communicate if something would go wrong again it can be restored with communication; if you cut communication you can secretly love each other but lose each other because of lack of communication. And I'm glad you don't leave, if you don't make any more files… well too bad it's just good to have you around.

Go celebrate by getting drunk again?

I can say for sure that she is indeed not a homophobe

Getting drunk? Never have, probably never will. The legal age to drink is 21. My parents leave alcohol lying around the house, but the taste to me is just... undesireable...

Good, good. Homophobes are vexatious people.

I'll be sad to see you go, rabidwolf9. You make some of the best file sets I've seen, so I'll miss your excellent development skills and the excellent file sets you could produce.

I'm not necessarily angry at you, but it does upset me that you would leave the community over something not related to Dink or business.

I tried leaving once, I think, and this was over a girl I'd been 'dating' that was in the Dink Community. I was gone maybe a few hours. Though the girl did leave and has stayed absent... I believe she felt uncomfortable with the fact that a lot of people here were and are my close buddies, and assumed they had sided with me. But that doesn't apply to you, noone's sided with your ex-girlfriend here, noone knows her, you should be ok.

Please don't go. But if you do choose to depart, it will be a great loss, for you were one of the most pleasant people here.

edit: I am not quite sure how I missed the post saying you got back with the girl and you've chosen not to leave after all. I need to double-check whether or not I'm ingesting illicit substances. Nevertheless, my point still stands: Don't leave us over something we didn't do

This may be a bit of a late post, and I don't know you all that well, but you've released some great files, and seem like a real nice fella. The DN would miss you, no doubt.

I'm glad your back with your girl. The ladies make the world go round, that's for sure.