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I'M GOING CRAZY

August 7th 2016, 02:27 PM
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Bluedy
Peasant Male Romania steam bloop
Flyest artist you know 
Guys, as you know, I'm 15. I've been living in the SAME room with my mom ever since my parents broke up. It didn't affect me much. Then she found a BOYFRIEND. Now he lives with us too. 3 people, 1 room. I've been living like this for 4 YEARS. The closest thing to my own room is my bed. It started affecting me more and more. My mom is very DUCKING stubborn, and EVERYTHING must happen as she wishes. That means, I have to go to sleep whenever she does. When she starts to watch the TV, even though I put in earphones, I still hear the GODDAMN TV. And more annoying shit like that.

Apparently, we are supposed to move into a bigger apartment with 2 rooms pretty soon, and by soon I mean 6 months or more -_- And to add to the pain, my mom stopped giving a shit more and more about my desire for a personal space, so much so that whenever I ask her how are the plans going, she says she HOPES for us to have enough money. ARE YOU SHITTING ME? AM I SUPPOSED TO LIVE WITH 2 OTHER PEOPLE IN A SMALL DUCKING ROOM UNTIL I'M 18?! And you might say "well, you dumb piece of shit, you can move in with your father!". Nope I can't. I WON'T. IF I DO THAT, IT MEANS TO HAVE TO LIVE WITH HIS STUPID DUCKING SATAN OF A WIFE.

So guys, please, as a fellow member of this friendly community, give me some tips on how to not go ducking insane and help myself feel like I have much more personal space than I actually have. Because, I can't wait 6 months
August 7th 2016, 02:36 PM
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merder
Peasant Male Netherlands xbox steam
The Voice in the back of your head! 
welcome to the "crazy" club sanity is overrated anyway
August 7th 2016, 03:08 PM
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SlipDink
Peasant Male United States bloop
2nd generation. No easy way to be free. 
No one feels sane all the time. However, what you need (and what we all need to work on during our lifetimes) is patience.

Patience is the greatest virtue.

Remember you are not the only person affected by impatience. You can try methods like these. They work for me.

+ Listen to your favorite soothing music on headphones.
+ Read a book you enjoy and/or visit the library, a place of silence.
+ Count to 10 before loosing your temper.
+ Do something to help someone else who needs more help than you, so you see your own troubles in a different light.
+ Eat a healthy snack. It is easier to be happy when your stomach is full.
+ Take a walk outside, stretch your legs in your favorite park.
+ Avoid sleepless nights by doing your best to fill your day to tire yourself out, then fall asleep reading in bed.

Good Luck.
August 7th 2016, 03:19 PM
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Skurn
Peasant Female United States xbox steam duck bloop
i like pie 
there simply has to be another room. move into that.
August 7th 2016, 04:16 PM
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Bluedy
Peasant Male Romania steam bloop
Flyest artist you know 
Thank you, SlipDink

there simply has to be another room. move into that.

Yeah, the bathroom and the kitchen. And they are both around 8 feet in height and length.
PLUS THEY ARE USED AT LEAST 10 TIMES A DAY BY OTHER PERSONS. So yeah, can't move into any of 'em.
August 7th 2016, 10:28 PM
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leprochaun
Peasant Male Japan xbox steam bloop
Responsible for making things not look like ass 
Are you able to work? I'm not sure how old you have to be before you can legally get a job in Romania. If you can work definitely try to find a job. Then you could help your mother pay for a bigger place so you could have your own room. It seems as though money is the issue here.

If you can't find a job, just get out of the house. Spend your time at a library or volunteering somewhere. Just get out of your cramped home for as long as you can. Maybe go for walks every day somewhere peaceful and just be alone for a while. It'll be comforting.
August 7th 2016, 11:47 PM
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Striker
Noble United States steam
Daniel, there are clowns. 
Yeah, that's a tough one... and would drive anyone insane. Leprochaun's idea is the best one I can see.
August 8th 2016, 05:25 AM
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Bluedy
Peasant Male Romania steam bloop
Flyest artist you know 
If you can't find a job, just get out of the house. Spend your time at a library or volunteering somewhere. Just get out of your cramped home for as long as you can. Maybe go for walks every day somewhere peaceful and just be alone for a while. It'll be comforting.


YEAH, YEAH. That'll do! I have to find somewhere to go. I should join a drawing club or something like that. Go for runs.I HAVE TO GET A LIST OF THESE THINGS.
August 9th 2016, 04:30 AM
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scratcher
Bard Male Finland bloop
cigarette bonca 
or a g-g-girlfriend
August 9th 2016, 04:34 AM
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Bluedy
Peasant Male Romania steam bloop
Flyest artist you know 
or a g-g-girlfriend

....

Oh....
August 9th 2016, 09:28 AM
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yeoldetoast
Peasant Female Australia steam
discord.gg/Ukugfbh 
Find a Transnistrian grill and have lots of communist children with her.
August 9th 2016, 09:41 AM
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Bluedy
Peasant Male Romania steam bloop
Flyest artist you know 
Finally...all these years having sexual intercourse with grills put to good use
August 9th 2016, 11:21 AM
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Skurn
Peasant Female United States xbox steam duck bloop
i like pie 
Transnistria
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did youuuuuuuuuuu just find some random unknown place?
August 9th 2016, 11:43 AM
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Bluedy
Peasant Male Romania steam bloop
Flyest artist you know 
That's not even Romania! Romanians speak Romanian, people from MOLDWOVAH speak the languages you mentioned. Romania is very different from MODLEHWOVAH
August 9th 2016, 01:21 PM
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Bluedy
Peasant Male Romania steam bloop
Flyest artist you know 
Alright I got it!

So I can go live in my hometown by myself in the weekends. I can also go and visit my grandma who has a DECENT DUCKING APARTMENT WITH 3 ROOMS. I already have 2 places I can go to. BRILLIANT!!
August 9th 2016, 03:27 PM
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Skurn
Peasant Female United States xbox steam duck bloop
i like pie 
should we tell him that you can plug yourself into the Smallwood Mainframe and live in our world?
August 11th 2016, 03:17 AM
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KrisKnox
Peasant Male United States steam
The site's resident Therian (Dire Wolf, Dragon) 
What I would do, personally, in your situation, is ask her if you two can sit down and discuss the situation. Let her know that while you do want your own personal space every now and then, that you understand that there are things she needs to do as well. Try to collaborate with her, figure out a schedule that she can agree to that will allow you to have your own personal time, figure out a system to where you will definitely have the money needed to move into a new place. It's not guaranteed to work, but if it does, you might find that the insanity is more manageable.
August 11th 2016, 04:25 AM
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Bluedy
Peasant Male Romania steam bloop
Flyest artist you know 
No schedule can be made. She doesn't have anywhere to go other than shopping but that takes around 1 hour. But it's ok. When school starts, I'm only going to see her in the evening. We also made a plan that from time to time I'll be living alone in the weekend in my hometown which is around 45m away. I'm just going to have to get used to things I guess. For now I'm pretty calm, but who knows when will be next time when I'll get sick of it again.
August 17th 2016, 01:11 AM
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DackFight
Peasant Male United States
Making Topics off-track faster then you can say it 
What about your grandma then, can't you try and move in with her, or did your mother cause any problems to make that not an option.
August 17th 2016, 08:29 AM
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Bluedy
Peasant Male Romania steam bloop
Flyest artist you know 
I could live with my grandma, but she is, however, at least to some degree, batshit crazy. Plus, I said visiting her. As much as she says it, I know she doesn't exactly love me, so living with her would make her an incovenience. Plus, I don't have internet xD
August 20th 2016, 01:15 AM
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DackFight
Peasant Male United States
Making Topics off-track faster then you can say it 
My next best idea is to get a wolf to eat her then. You could also try to find some nice friendly neighbourhood hobos who will let you live with them, they can get internet from public buildings just fine. You could also just find a nice girl/guy like earlier suggested, then just spend all day with her/him, if your mom allows it or you just don't care, you could get comfortable, put on a nice jazz song, and then debate about Pokemon all night with him.
August 20th 2016, 02:39 AM
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Skurn
Peasant Female United States xbox steam duck bloop
i like pie 
just think - the dark room dimly lit by candlelight, the snazzy bar set up with exotic drinks, the pink furniture and pink lavalamps...then bluedy sits down with someone special. he pours a mixture of hawaiian punch and ginger ale into both their wine glasses and straightens the collar on his bath robe and plays a record of some quaint piano music.

"so, ash didn't win the kalos league either. think he'll ever give up?"
August 20th 2016, 04:17 AM
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yeoldetoast
Peasant Female Australia steam
discord.gg/Ukugfbh 
You could always consider some translator work since your English is pretty good. I think you can do a lot of it on web sites nowadays.
August 20th 2016, 04:36 AM
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Skurn
Peasant Female United States xbox steam duck bloop
i like pie 
my idea's better. you got this, bluedy. just follow my story exactly. you'll win.
August 20th 2016, 06:30 AM
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Bluedy
Peasant Male Romania steam bloop
Flyest artist you know 
You could always consider some translator work since your English is pretty good. I think you can do a lot of it on web sites nowadays.

Errbody knows english these days. I'd be paid super low.
August 20th 2016, 10:22 PM
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DackFight
Peasant Male United States
Making Topics off-track faster then you can say it 
I'll pay you -$5.00 an hour if you can translate Skurnish for us. You can also take my idea of the dating, it seems like there's already a good suitor for you near by. *Hints to Skurns direction*
August 20th 2016, 10:46 PM
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Skurn
Peasant Female United States xbox steam duck bloop
i like pie 
my paper thin rallies are not for sale. please deposit your washing machine into the ballot box for next yesterday's drawing. this is when we will sell again.
August 21st 2016, 02:51 AM
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KrisKnox
Peasant Male United States steam
The site's resident Therian (Dire Wolf, Dragon) 
You could translate Romanian into English. For cash. Obviously, for cash.
August 23rd 2016, 11:46 AM
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My next best idea is to get a wolf to eat her then.

I'm glad you're still around, Dack.
August 23rd 2016, 12:21 PM
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Bluedy
Peasant Male Romania steam bloop
Flyest artist you know 
Obviously, for cash.

There is no cash in Romania. WE'RE DIRT POOR. *COUGH* Holy shit a penny! I'm duckin' rich!

Nah, I'm joking. But I'm already translating romanian into english and vice-versa, but for free. At my dad's work place. Can you ducking believe I'm the best english speaker in a room full of adults who speak english everyday?
August 23rd 2016, 01:15 PM
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Skurn
Peasant Female United States xbox steam duck bloop
i like pie 
yes, but you shouldn't do their job for free. charge them higher than what they charge.

they're probably using your translations to become rich trillionaires anyways.
August 23rd 2016, 01:43 PM
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Bluedy
Peasant Male Romania steam bloop
Flyest artist you know 
yes, but you shouldn't do their job for free. charge them higher than what they charge.

-HEy ded, Giv me moni fur enligchs
-ok sun. her's 5 buks
-tenk u
August 23rd 2016, 01:50 PM
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Skurn
Peasant Female United States xbox steam duck bloop
i like pie 
find out what they charge, then charge extra since you've been doing their job for free
August 23rd 2016, 04:29 PM
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Bluedy
Peasant Male Romania steam bloop
Flyest artist you know 
I should also charge extra for doing their work. Actually, I should charge EXTRA EXTRA because i offer my services!
August 23rd 2016, 09:22 PM
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Skurn
Peasant Female United States xbox steam duck bloop
i like pie 
also, charge even more for them daring to call themselves translators.

basically, just stuff the agreement full of hidden charges. and on top of that, add a tiny unreadable clause in some fantasy language saying that each payment increases by increments of x5.
August 23rd 2016, 11:58 PM
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DackFight
Peasant Male United States
Making Topics off-track faster then you can say it 
Are we going to get charged for Blue speaking in English instead of Romanian from now on?
August 24th 2016, 12:29 AM
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Skurn
Peasant Female United States xbox steam duck bloop
i like pie 
wait, he can speak lettuce??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
August 24th 2016, 01:22 AM
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Striker
Noble United States steam
Daniel, there are clowns. 
°Yo soy lachuga!
August 24th 2016, 04:25 AM
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Bluedy
Peasant Male Romania steam bloop
Flyest artist you know 
PUTA MADRE. Oh shit sorry, this is the only thing I know in Italian.

Naah but really. You guys do need to pay me. And uh...how many years has it been since I've joined this place? 2? Yeah, you guys need to PAY THE DUCK UP.
August 24th 2016, 04:56 AM
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Skurn
Peasant Female United States xbox steam duck bloop
i like pie 
but i don't know how to pay lettuce
August 24th 2016, 05:23 AM
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Bluedy
Peasant Male Romania steam bloop
Flyest artist you know 
Don't worry. You can pay me in duck heads.
August 24th 2016, 12:02 PM
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DackFight
Peasant Male United States
Making Topics off-track faster then you can say it 
What about if I give you these magic beans? *Holds leather bag*
August 24th 2016, 04:15 PM
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Bluedy
Peasant Male Romania steam bloop
Flyest artist you know 
That's not magic beans, that's cocaine! But sure I'll take it.
August 25th 2016, 04:10 AM
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KrisKnox
Peasant Male United States steam
The site's resident Therian (Dire Wolf, Dragon) 
Actually, it wouldn't be a bad idea telling your father you're planning on offering translation services and would like help getting started. Assuming he's a relatively rational fellow, he could get you in contact with people who actually need translating done.
August 25th 2016, 07:38 AM
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Bluedy
Peasant Male Romania steam bloop
Flyest artist you know 
Actually, it wouldn't be a bad idea telling your father you're planning on offering translation services and would like help getting started. Assuming he's a relatively rational fellow, he could get you in contact with people who actually need translating done.

Yeah, that is an idea,however he works at a dutch scaffolding company(that's why they all speak english) and that means I should also know all of the terms and names of equipment and all of that that is used in scaffolding. I mean, before I started helping him out at work, I didn't even know what a scaffolding was! Sure I could use google translate but, ya know how google translate is
August 25th 2016, 08:01 AM
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KrisKnox
Peasant Male United States steam
The site's resident Therian (Dire Wolf, Dragon) 
Pantalonii mei sunt umplute cu țipari.
August 26th 2016, 02:13 AM
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DackFight
Peasant Male United States
Making Topics off-track faster then you can say it 
We can get Skurn to help with your problem, though he may have started it to begin with.
August 26th 2016, 05:28 AM
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Bluedy
Peasant Male Romania steam bloop
Flyest artist you know 
Pantalonii mei sunt umplute cu țipari.

Well, it's actually "Pantalonii mei sunt umpluți cu țipari"
But you were close.
August 26th 2016, 09:56 AM
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KrisKnox
Peasant Male United States steam
The site's resident Therian (Dire Wolf, Dragon) 
If only I did that with Translate. XD
Kinda wonder how different it really is.
August 26th 2016, 11:06 AM
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Bluedy
Peasant Male Romania steam bloop
Flyest artist you know 
Kinda wonder how different it really is.

Well let me give you an idea by translating a romanian phrase into english but using romanian grammar rules.

"őmi place s„ dansez cu unicorni mari și pufoși"

"I like to dance with unicorns big and fluffy"

but with normal english grammar it's

"I like dancing with big, fluffy unicorns"
August 26th 2016, 01:26 PM
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DackFight
Peasant Male United States
Making Topics off-track faster then you can say it 
What's the difference when there aren't any accents over any or some of the letters, like 'I' or 'A'? (Would it mean something different without the accent?)
August 26th 2016, 01:41 PM
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Bluedy
Peasant Male Romania steam bloop
Flyest artist you know 
If you said "I" to a romanian in an english accent, to him, it would sound like "ai" which means "you have (something or whatever)", if you tell him "A", to him it sound like "ei" which kind of translates to "well(not the hole in the ground with water in it)" but not officialy. So yeah, we also have to make an english accent, which usually, to most people, sounds like shit.
October 31st 2016, 05:49 AM
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Bluedy
Peasant Male Romania steam bloop
Flyest artist you know 
What's the difference when there aren't any accents over any or some of the letters, like 'I' or 'A'? (Would it mean something different without the accent?)

When there are "accents" over letters, they aren't accents They are simply letters

The romanian alphabet begins with a,‚,ă,b,c,d,etc.