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September 6th 2006, 10:02 AM
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joshriot
Peasant They/Them United States
keep it real 
If everyone is forced to drink the koolaid and agree with everyone, then there would be no point in discussing the matter and we could just close this thread right now knowing that everyone always agrees.

you know what ledzeppelin i know exactly how you feel. ive seen this also. too much. the whole (If fudgeing 7113 she dog) attitude disguised as be like me or you are wrong. ive seen it a million times. the ohh you dont use periods theres something wrong with you. why do you keep posting things that are off topic? the delete every single one of my messages just because it was posted by me. the ban me from the chat because everyone already has a personal vendetta against me and are sitting waiting for an excuse.

ive been through it all. i even left because of it. i quit the dink squad. i was like eff it. i was tired of the "better than you" attitude the "dont think for yourself" attitude the "drink kool aid and shave your head" attitude that in waves plagues this community when certain as you would say "cultleaders" pop up into positions of power. but im not going to go and say i had nothing to do with it. the fact that they treated me like this only made me provoke them more. to the point that it was a vicious cycle, nobody was being respectful or understanding, and the meaning in everything becomes lost.

dont put yourself in that same spot. i see the same thing happening to you. im trying to help you. because i didnt feel like ANYBODY was on my side. and i left because of it. and thats not a good thing.

dont provoke anyone. just be yourself. thats what i do now. i be myself. sometimes i say something a little out of line still. and ill realize it. but people will let it go if they understand thats just how you are. but crossing the line time and time again is going to get you nothing but contempt. be yourself and people will respect you for who you are. going on a verbal crusade by attacking everyone who stands in your way or tells you they dont like you isnt going to help. just tell them to fudge off and dont tell you what to do and you can say whatever the hell you want to say because they are elitest censorship control freak monkeys. but dont provoke anyone. dont be the devils advocate. all of the time. people will understand you in time but just be yourself. and dont let anyone tell you otherwise.