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October 13th 2010, 11:45 PM
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MsDink
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IMHO, Someone and Sparrowhawk are right DD, this is not the forum to get your answers from, most of us come from a totally different belief system and our opinions and expectations are quite different to you and your families. Our system tolerates these 'acting outs' of a teenager as normal behaviour whilst yours does not. What is acceptable to us is not to you.

I am of the opinion that all this pressure to conform - will just drive her further from her family, as it seems thats what she is rebelling against in the first place.

Hang in there DD - love her no matter what (because that leaves a way back) and find like minded forums to assist you in your effort to help her (I say help her, because I understand that is what your belief system expects of you). No matter what the outcome, she will need her brother later in life - don't write her off DD just love her as she is, look for the good because there IS good in every person on this planet.