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June 20th 2011, 06:48 AM
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Yes, but at any point anyone - regardless of what has gone before, can stop and say this is not how I want to be going forward - you don't HAVE to carry the legacy of your past, you CAN choose not to but a lot decide its 'too hard' and they 'can't' and 'don't even try' because of their past, they believe for them there is no other way or dont even think about it because theyre too busy "being in it".

So I guess what I am saying is all this takes is to recognise you can change,(and thats huge to get to that point for a lot of people) then want to do it, then setting in action steps to move towards those changes.

The point is, I think, that not many recognise the need or even that they have the option available to them to make those changes, their past as you say - doesnt allow them to think there is any other way and thats the roadblock, not that they cant make or dont have choices available to them.