The Dink Network

I finally realize it

August 25th 2011, 09:03 AM
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Skull
Peasant He/Him Finland bloop
A Disembodied Sod 
SabreTrout's farewell post made me realize something. You know, we all have been going around flaming, spamming and telling others they are the reason this site has begun sucking. I finally realize that I have been going around telling everyone that it has been ME who has kept this site alive, when in reality, it isn't. I realize I have had both positive, and negative effects on this site. People blame each other here all the time "You did this, you did that". We should finally start seeing the truth and say "I did this, I did that". We should realize that it depends on us all that this site is going so dang downhill. I don't know how SabreTrout feels about me, but to me, Sabre's been a good friend since I joined, and he's one of the few reasons I have been staying on this site for so long. Now he threatens to leave. I feel ashamed, that I've been a part of the reason he's leaving, as should everyone on this site. I hope you people are dang proud now that you've caused such a great old-timer to leave, because I sure am not. This whole thing has gone completely ridiculous. This site has gone completely ridiculous. The fact that I feel so ashamed to be a part of this site, and so miserable, that I have to post this kind of a post, shows that it has gone way overboard. The fact that SabreTrout is saying he's going to leave (even if just briefly) shows how ridiculous this thing has become.

I know there are going to be messages like "Don't try to act like staff", "Don't try to be like some sort of a savior of this site" or just plain "Skull sucks so I'm not gonna listen to him". Those kind of messages are exactly one of the reasons this site has gone so downhill. I say it's time we quit this stupidity, and instead focus on the good aspects, and try to increase them. If there's a spammer/flamer, let's stop responding to him, ignore him, or talk sensibly to him. Let's try to keep our shoot together. We're all Dinkers, we're all here cause we love The Dink Network and Dink Smallwood. We should all stick together instead of fighting each other. I'll sure as dang will from now on! That's a promise!

This post has gone into ridiculous aspects and ridiculous length, but there's one more thing:

If it has gone to the length that people like SabreTrout are going to leave, then so am I, cause if that's really happening, I don't feel like a part of this site anymore, and neither should any of you.

The goddang end.
August 25th 2011, 09:16 AM
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Godley
Peasant They/Them
 
Sabre Trout, instead of handing some people a couple of bans, has decided to quit.

Wrong decision, mate.
August 25th 2011, 09:19 AM
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Skull
Peasant He/Him Finland bloop
A Disembodied Sod 
And why did he decide to leave? Because of people like you, because of people like me and because of every dang idiot on this site, who has decided it's better off to just spam and flame, than to enjoy this site and actually contribute to it.
August 25th 2011, 09:22 AM
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Skull
Peasant He/Him Finland bloop
A Disembodied Sod 
It's dang time, that people realize it's their OWN fault for making this site total garbage, and that it is their responsibility, to do that tiny duty of theirs, to not spam nor flame but instead contribute, to make this site enjoyable again.
August 25th 2011, 09:30 AM
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Godley
Peasant They/Them
 
@ Skull

There is a modify button, use it.

Though, personally, I have no issues with it this way either.
August 25th 2011, 09:39 AM
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Skull
Peasant He/Him Finland bloop
A Disembodied Sod 
I know this thread is, at some point, going to turn into just another flamewar. Just cause modern Dinkers can't keep their hands off the keyboard for some reason. I guess this site is doomed cause people will never realize the fact that it's up to them whether this site is a nice place to hang or not.

I'll be happy to inform that I will not be taking part in any future flamewar. Instead of being the guy who always hangs in here fighting. Instead I'm the guy who checks in here every few days to only see flaming, and then finally realize it's pointless to hang in here. Why? Cause realization has hit me, and I hope it will hit the rest of you some day too.
August 25th 2011, 09:51 AM
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Godley
Peasant They/Them
 
In the past half an hour you have posted atleast 3X more than any other dinker.

Just cause modern Dinkers can't keep their hands off the keyboard for some reason.
August 25th 2011, 09:56 AM
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Skull
Peasant He/Him Finland bloop
A Disembodied Sod 
I don't care how much I post. It took a hundred thousand posts to make me realize the error of my ways. It's going to take a hundred thousand apparently for you others too.

Why can't others see the error of their ways too? Already you're trying to start some sort of a fight. What's the point? You could be doing something totally different, making a D-Mod, or posting happy messages instead. Or at least try to see the point of my post, instead of trying to make some sort of a joke on it based on one sentence in them.

I see now what Tal was trying to tell me a few weeks back. Maybe I should just give up and leave this site to rot, like he did.
August 25th 2011, 11:07 AM
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leprochaun
Peasant He/Him Japan bloop
Responsible for making things not look like ass 
I wouldn't see you as the problem. The problem is that there's not many really active people, and so all we see is predator DD and Godley mostly. It's not a booming site. Leaving wont settle anything.
August 25th 2011, 11:11 AM
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I'll be better now, I will contribute to the site(working on a mod and an addon) and won't flame/spam. Forgive me guys. I'll ignore predator's provocations now.
August 25th 2011, 11:13 AM
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Quiztis
Peasant He/Him Sweden bloop
Life? What's that? Can I download it?! 
I sure dang agree, this site has gone from dinky to messy with users attacking like never before. I won't be part of this site either if this continues. It's like the site is done for even with the high activity.

You crack me up in a bad way, Godley. You really can't post anything properly in any discussion no matter what the situation.
August 25th 2011, 11:16 AM
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Kyle
Peasant He/Him Belgium
 
Well I for one am extremely pleased to see change in at least one person and it has renewed my belief that we can get through this as a community. Who's next to follow?You know what we need, something fun to do on this forum. Some fun kind of game or something. I remember people used to contribute fun stuff to the Let's Play topic discussions. Something like that. Call it a fun distraction
August 25th 2011, 11:18 AM
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DuckHater
Peasant He/Him India
From The Depths Of Tartarus Itself 
What do you mean by "let's play topic"?
August 25th 2011, 11:19 AM
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Godley
Peasant They/Them
 
I for one am extremely pleased to see change in at least one person

And who may that be?
August 25th 2011, 11:21 AM
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leprochaun
Peasant He/Him Japan bloop
Responsible for making things not look like ass 
I made one Kyle, it was a great idea.
August 25th 2011, 11:57 AM
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Skull
Peasant He/Him Finland bloop
A Disembodied Sod 
I wouldn't see you as the problem. The problem is that there's not many really active people, and so all we see is predator DD and Godley mostly

Then become an active member. The problem is not me, not you nor any single person. It's us all and our combination. People don't need to hang here as much as DD, Godley, Predator or me, just to be an active member. You're an active member by contributing pleasant things to the site, every few days or so.

Back in the days, people didn't know DinkC, so they either learned it, and made a D-Mod, or if they felt like they couldn't learn it, they contributed to the site by being a known face at the forums. So what's to stop people from doing the same now? Ignore the faces you don't like here, and instead of fighting amongst them, learn how to make a D-Mod, write reviews, post screenshots, post pleasant things. It's like a fun game with tons of things to do and spent your time with.

I know I've said a lot about "Use your flaming time to contribute" but that's really they key sentence here. You need to do that, to make this site a happier place again.
August 25th 2011, 12:00 PM
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Kyle
Peasant He/Him Belgium
 
learn how to make a D-Mod, write reviews, post screenshots, post pleasant things. It's like a fun game with tons of things to do and spent your time with.

This, this soooo much!
August 25th 2011, 12:54 PM
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DuckHater
Peasant He/Him India
From The Depths Of Tartarus Itself 
Hey,this site's already started looking better
August 25th 2011, 12:56 PM
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Hehe, yeah. Try making a DMod DH it's fun
It had to take a leaving mod to make us wake up.
August 25th 2011, 01:07 PM
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Skull
Peasant He/Him Finland bloop
A Disembodied Sod 
I wrote a review to get started, and will continue writing more! Now it's your (yes, I'm talking to YOU!!) turn to show you're a true Dinker!
August 25th 2011, 01:11 PM
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Godley
Peasant They/Them
 
Try making a DMod DH it's fun

I disagree.
August 25th 2011, 01:15 PM
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Skull
Peasant He/Him Finland bloop
A Disembodied Sod 
Psst, Godley. You don't need to tell everyone how horrible of a torture it really is.

I really enjoy making D-Mods, but I suppose some could see it as just work without payment. However, when making a D-Mod, I'm not all about the payment. I just like making D-Mods. It's kinda like writing a book but with actually managing to finish one.

Teehehee, Scracther said my ****** is long and nice!
August 25th 2011, 01:15 PM
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Krisknox
Peasant He/Him United States
The site's resident Therian (Dire Wolf, Dragon) 
So, you're telling us to ignore Predator's racist and often inflammatory (Did I spell that right?) posts? To ignore the evils of those who seek to sow discord instead of peace and prosperity?

Yeah, I know that I have in the past been a flamer at times, but if I've been one recently, the kind that just insult someone without justifiable provocation, then I have not noticed it. I have been trying to unsucessfully make the board a more peaceful, positive forum, and I know my intentions if my actions speak something else, perhaps if more of us work together, we can bring the forum to its former glory, or better.
August 25th 2011, 01:29 PM
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Godley
Peasant They/Them
 
Skkull, we do have a swear filter in place(Although its lame), You need not put the *s.
August 25th 2011, 01:30 PM
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Skull
Peasant He/Him Finland bloop
A Disembodied Sod 
I know, but that's what Scratcher said to me. With the stars. It was a joke about my review.

@ Krisknox
Exactly, more of us need to work together to produce an unison of Dinkers who actually care for the well-being of this site. I can't blame you at all for being a part of this site's downfall, Kris. You're one of the rare Dinkers who haven't been a part of it, at least very recently. However, one thing you could do for this site, is to write reviews and that kinda stuff.
August 25th 2011, 01:52 PM
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Duckhater
Peasant He/Him India
From The Depths Of Tartarus Itself 
@DD,i did start making a dmod,i've been working on it for 3 months or so.But the work has haulted because my computer broke.It's been a month since my parents sent it for repairs.
August 25th 2011, 05:56 PM
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I know I've said a lot about "Use your flaming time to contribute" but that's really they key sentence here. You need to do that, to make this site a happier place again.

I agree with this. We should drown out the stuff we don't like with stuff we do like.
August 25th 2011, 06:20 PM
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Absolution
Peasant They/Them
The Dark Lord of the DN. 
Skull, I was ready to respect you with the first paragraph of this post...but...

You're really going to tell us to blame ourselves for this? Dude, we're just acting like a normal forum goer would when a troll enters the site. I want you to stop and reflect on what you've done, because 70+% of all the flaming here is because people are getting sick of your inflated ego and your thinking that you're the Dink Network messiah.
August 25th 2011, 06:22 PM
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pillbug
Peasant He/Him United States
Love! True love! 
We should create a D-Mod of the Month event. It'll help bring people together, play D-Mods, and discuss punching ducks. Exactly what the forum was created for.

(I don't mean a contest, I mean an event like a book club. But with less old ladies and more punching ducks in the mouth.)
August 25th 2011, 06:25 PM
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Mrgantoe
Peasant He/Him Cuba
I'm simply a distraction. 
Again abs stop it with all the negative posts of you and skull would forgett your goddàmn quarrels and just shut your mouths this would be such a nicer place there I said what alot of you were thinking.

@pillbug couldn't agree more.
August 25th 2011, 06:26 PM
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Absolution
Peasant They/Them
The Dark Lord of the DN. 
Oh, I see. So now you're speaking for all of us? There goes my respect for you now, MrGanToe.
August 25th 2011, 06:28 PM
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Mrgantoe
Peasant He/Him Cuba
I'm simply a distraction. 
I really don't care if you respect me absolution not one bit i refuse to speak any further on the subject PM me if you must.
August 25th 2011, 06:30 PM
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Absolution
Peasant They/Them
The Dark Lord of the DN. 
That's low, MrGanToe.

If you want anything else to say, you PM me.

I'm sick of all this shoote here. Look what we've become! You know how this happened? First, Godley appears and starts flaming DD, so he retaliates. Then Predator shows up and trolls everyone. THEN Skull starts thinking he's God and starts speaking for everyone and trying to steal Staff jobs.

You say it's our fault this happened?
August 26th 2011, 12:55 AM
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Godley
Peasant They/Them
 
I'm sick of all this shoote here. Look what we've become! You know how this happened? First, Godley appears and starts flaming DD, so he retaliates. Then Predator shows up and trolls everyone. THEN Skull starts thinking he's God and starts speaking for everyone and trying to steal Staff jobs.


Huh!!??
Me and DD are pretty even now.

And AFAIK, the problem these days is the inherent rudeness in your posts.
August 26th 2011, 03:53 AM
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Predator
Ghost They/Them
 
The real problem in this site are little sh!ts like Abs zeddexx Godley and DD
who try to change the subject every dam time saying childish stupis stuff like

Kiss me or die
Blonde goat girlfriend
Atheist are ingnorant wresling fanboys
getting called retard 99999999 times by Godley

They are the real problem.
August 26th 2011, 03:56 AM
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Didn't you get your account password? Use your account now.
August 26th 2011, 05:44 AM
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yeoldetoast
Peasant They/Them Australia
LOOK UPON MY DEFORMED FACE! 
The problem is that Dink is dead. He died a slow and painful death which could not even be prevented by DinkHD.

There is no Dink community left. Not like there used to be. There is only this site, the RTSoft site, Beuc's sites and Dink Smallwood Italia left. RedInk has abandoned this place because there's nothing left of it.

Nobody has anything to do, so they insult each other instead.
August 26th 2011, 06:22 AM
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Kyle
Peasant He/Him Belgium
 
No, I have been in dead communities, it's NOTHING like this. Dead communities have literally nothing left to talk about, they don't even insult each other, they don't even lurk.

And that kind of negativity is exactly what we don't need Toast.
August 26th 2011, 07:15 AM
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Skull
Peasant He/Him Finland bloop
A Disembodied Sod 
See, I said someone was eventually going to post "Skull plays a God". I told ya!

Absolution, just to say it nicely, you are a part of this site's downfall, yes. You're in fact, as big of a part of it as I am. Accept it. The end. Fin. El Finale. Whatever.

I agree with Kyle. Instead of being "Dink died. We don't have old Dinkers anymore. Oh, the good old times ", we should be "Let's try and make good new times! ".

Negative attitude is the least this forum needs right now. All we need is people accepting the truth that it depends on them whether this site is going to burn in flamewar and die, or not. This site was already a much nicer place to hang yesterday evening, when people had began seeing the truth. Now we just need to surrender to that thought and begin working as an unison. Nobody will be left out of our group unless they choose to be left outside, by spamming and flaming (this isn't my decision, but something that will automatically happen sooner or later).
August 26th 2011, 07:35 AM
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MsDink
Peasant She/Her New Zealand
Tag - Umm.. tag, you're it? 
...and some people just need to give it a rest and take a pass on the lecture spamming I swear to DDC its driving me outta here as well...
August 26th 2011, 07:36 AM
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Robj
Jester He/Him Australia
You feed the madness, and it feeds on you. 
Does this mean I have to give back the cookies? Cuz, you've got a better chance of fudging a pineapple than that happening.

By the way, if anyone does actually resort to fudging a pineapple, let me give you a word of good advice and tell you to contact googletube for a full in-depth tutoiral on the corect methods of fully fudging a pineapple to the nth degree.

August 26th 2011, 07:51 AM
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Skull
Peasant He/Him Finland bloop
A Disembodied Sod 
We need more posts like Robj's. Posts that don't take themselves too seriously.

What people need to realize is that this is not just me babbling and babbling. These are not my rules, that I order everyone to follow. It's just that I wish people did follow these rules, because they are the rules that this site has laid down for us, in order to keep it alive.
August 26th 2011, 08:05 AM
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Godley
Peasant They/Them
 
@ Skull

If an old timer spams, you got no problem.

But if a new guy even posts something off topic(not even spam), you get annoyed.

Why the double standards?
August 26th 2011, 08:12 AM
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Godley
Peasant They/Them
 
Also the fact that Robj's post can be, at best, classified a spam.
August 26th 2011, 08:31 AM
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Skull
Peasant He/Him Finland bloop
A Disembodied Sod 
No, they are classified as jokes. Funny posts. While they don't make much sense, at least they please the eye. Trust me, if a newcomer posted similar posts to his, yes I would be at first a little weirded out, but then I'd realize it's just him. However, the difference between most newcomers' and Robj's posts are, that Robj's posts have a positive attitude, while the others have a negative attitude, or just straight out flaming.

And for the last time I'm asking you. Really, I'm begging you. Can't you PLEASE use your time to construct this site into a better form, rather than posting negative remarks about everything. That's the whole point of this site. To have fun. And we've already seen what happens when the fun gets taken away. It leads to great people leaving this site.
August 26th 2011, 08:40 AM
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Kyle
Peasant He/Him Belgium
 
LOL Godley seriously? Robj's posts are NOT spam, they embody the quirky nature of the site completely. The site used to have these kinds of posts all over the place, where do you think the banana fetish came from in the first place?
August 26th 2011, 09:23 AM
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That post was funny. Not spam. godley's negative attitude has increased tenfold since Sabre left.
August 26th 2011, 09:46 AM
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Godley
Peasant They/Them
 
Trust me, if a newcomer posted similar posts to his, yes I would be at first a little weirded out, but then I'd realize it's just him.

Oh, so that means that if two guys make the same post, they will be interpreted differently.

That is just outright stupid.
August 26th 2011, 09:51 AM
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Kyle
Peasant He/Him Belgium
 
That's not stupid at all. It is called getting to know someone.
August 26th 2011, 12:57 PM
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KrisKnox
Peasant He/Him United States
The site's resident Therian (Dire Wolf, Dragon) 
I'm sick of all this shoote here. Look what we've become! You know how this happened? First, Godley appears and starts flaming DD, so he retaliates. Then Predator shows up and trolls everyone. THEN Skull starts thinking he's God and starts speaking for everyone and trying to steal Staff jobs.

Ignoring Pred's posts, I would like to ask you; Skorn, what did you do when you first appeared on the forum? Answer, Almost exactly what Godley did. What did you do when your Skorn account was banned? You created a new one called Absolution and layed low for a while before taking up the old bad habit like a once-reformed smoker. What have you been doing lately? The same bullshoot that's been going on since Pred got here, or maybe a little before. All I know is that we are having an AshsAshs repeat, but Pred's either studied what Ashs did, or he's a lot smarter, and trickier, than his predecessor ever was. The difference is that Ashs was just plain ducking with us, having a good time while stirring up the shoot. Ashs created a major flame war, where everyone banded up to try and get rid of him. Predator has lasted longer than Ashs and has managed to create discord and chaos with a majority of his topics. He has created what I like to call a Total Flame War, where a forum not only flames the vagrant, but also each other to the point of where the bonds that bind the members together shatter irrevocably. We are at a small window of opportunity to forgo this futile fight and repair the damages of Hurricane Pred. This may be our last chance to do this. I beseech everyone, forgo your petty squabbles, ingore the flames of wrath and don't water the seeds of discord that Predator has so eloquently sowed. And, to hopefully put things in a rather humorous light, Predator is the pit, and as we stare into him, he stared into us. We stare and don't understand beyond the inner darkness, but our hearts, so filled with light, are easily viewed. That as we battle the monster that he is, we ourselves become the monsters. (I am, of course, using a quote from Nietsche [Did I spell that right?] This is my interpretation, and a dang fine one in my opinion.)
August 26th 2011, 02:23 PM
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Interesting post, KrisKnox. I kinda like it.
August 26th 2011, 03:27 PM
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Skull
Peasant He/Him Finland bloop
A Disembodied Sod 
You're dang right, Kris! We must stop fighting amongst each other, and together fight against the greater evil. As ironic as it sounds, you can fight against the greater evil by not fighting at all. As I've said many times before, use your skills for good, not bad. I used them for both in the past, until now finally when Sabre left, I realized that if I can use my skills for good, then I should use them just for that, and leave the bad completely alone.

EDIT: I know I was the one actually opposing Tal's idea of ignoring Pred a while back, but that was just cause I was so-called "young and stupid". I finally had an awakening of sorts, and I think it would be quite easy to get rid of Predator if we just ignored him.
August 26th 2011, 04:22 PM
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Reading this thread makes me feel like I'm looking at the script of a seriously melodramatic JRPG.

Not saying that's a bad thing or a good thing... just observation. Power of friendship FTW.
August 26th 2011, 04:27 PM
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pillbug
Peasant He/Him United States
Love! True love! 
carebearstare
August 26th 2011, 05:01 PM
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Kyle
Peasant He/Him Belgium
 
FRIENDSHIP FOREVER!
August 26th 2011, 08:21 PM
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MsDink
Peasant She/Her New Zealand
Tag - Umm.. tag, you're it? 
Pred doesn't MAKE any us do anything, pred is just being pred, just as I am just being me, you are being you - its a choice we each make to react, we are all playing the blame game, with this place becoming like a daily soap opera and everyone coming back for the next installment, then whines about the content

Frankly its incredibly hilaroius that one of the worst spammers is telling us how to behave lol.

And this... I would like to ask you; Skorn, what did you do when you first appeared on the forum?
For goodness sake, you are still bringing up things from two years ago!! TWO years?
Really... REALLY?? Get over yourself!!

August 26th 2011, 09:11 PM
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Mrgantoe
Peasant He/Him Cuba
I'm simply a distraction. 
Well Pred this might be because it is just a tad possible that KrisKnox has personal ties to the disaster. It is also possible that he is simply standing up for his country can't blame him Pred if I called the UK fabulous you would go all out and try to split me over the interwebz.
August 26th 2011, 10:43 PM
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Absolution
Peasant They/Them
The Dark Lord of the DN. 
And you people blame me for the flame?

-.-
August 26th 2011, 11:18 PM
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Mrgantoe
Peasant He/Him Cuba
I'm simply a distraction. 
If you consider that flaming fab abs I'll be sure to modify it upon your request.
August 26th 2011, 11:46 PM
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script of JRPG
One of those where friendship solves everytning. That, or some kick-ass beast weapons.
August 27th 2011, 05:49 AM
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Skull
Peasant He/Him Finland bloop
A Disembodied Sod 
Frankly its incredibly hilaroius that one of the worst spammers is telling us how to behave lol.

Despite how bad you wish me to feel, I don't feel ashamed of being able to accept my own past mistakes, and trying to make this website a happy place for everyone to hang out.

If you so desperately wish to see finger pointing in this situation, then I'm pointing the finger at everyone. I've said it a million times, but people such as yourself just won't realize. It's a fact that this site will go down in flamewar if we don't do something about it. I'm getting the feeling you would rather have everybody here fight than be friends?

And why have you become so protective about Skorn? It's as if you're his mom or something. Skorn is a big boy and should accept his own mistakes, then maybe people could forgive him. I think it's quite obvious he's one of the biggest reasons for this site's downfall, considering he's one of the three (actually four, if I include you, MsDink) in this thread, who has constantly been fighting others. The rest are just trying to make things better.
August 27th 2011, 05:56 AM
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MsDink never fought as far as I've seen.
So:
DinkDoodler
Predator
godley

Nope, Absolution is a nice guy too. I mean, anyone would get frustrated in circumstances like these.
August 27th 2011, 06:07 AM
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Skull
Peasant He/Him Finland bloop
A Disembodied Sod 
Honestly? I think everyone's been quite calm in this thread, except for him and Predator, so it's totally uncalled for to try and fight all the time, despite the situation. MsDink and Godley weren't exactly fighting, but they could do with less negative attitude, cause that will only cause a breakdown sooner or later, and in the end, a fight.

EDIT: Ok, have to admit. I was sort of finger pointing there. I apologize. But I think everyone agrees a fight is the last thing we need right now.
August 27th 2011, 11:25 AM
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Godley
Peasant They/Them
 
Post for rent!