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December 16th 2015, 06:42 AM
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Peasant They/Them Australia
Oh, NOW YOU'VE DONE IT! 
>I've gotten to the point now where certain topics are hardly, if ever, brought up to me because of how I react.

The problem is that people tend to hate judgemental types. To get around this you sort of have to be apathetic or needlessly positive about things that may even disgust you. It might mean compromising your values but it's necessary.

If someone asks you what you think of something it's usually better to feign ignorance and ask small questions about what they think of it rather than tell then what you really do believe about it all even if you feel quite strongly about it.

That way they're more likely to bring it up in the future and expand upon it.