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DISCLAIMER: I'm a terrible writer, and im fully expecting confusion over what im saying... sorry...
One time, recently, I practiced not doing that and it worked alright. I was able to complete Bravely Default by just letting things slide if I lost or something. I guess I could still do that, but it's not very easy I guess.
Alot of people give others crap for giving adivce like: "oh, yeah. Just dont do it."
And the truth is, yeah it is pretty crap advice most of the time. But on the other hand it works wonders for me. Its just certain people i guess.
If you're one of those people who can handle just going against your'e impulses, and perhaps one day even dispelling them, then by all means go ahead. Its not meant to be easy.
Then again if thats something you're sure you cant do, you may need to try something else.
also another point i want to make is
You're choice of friends
ask yourself WHY you hang out with the people you do.
theres also the matter of how they treat you. See theres a balance to these things.
A friend may be good and encouraging, or he me be OVER encouraging to the point of meaningless flattery that does you no good.
or maybe they tear you down? make you feel worthless, of like a failure?
But then again theres a balance, your friend instead of being harsh or overly critical may be kindly keeping you down-to-earth, or helping you keep your ego in check.
Now im not saying the fault does INDEED lie with your friends and NOT you, but it is something to consider HONESTLY with yourself.
True friendship isnt all happiness and roses. Its telling your friend what THEY NEED to hear, helping them when THEY NEED it.
its about fully recognizing the faults in them, but accepting them and living with them.
(assuming the faults arent like super evil or something)
If you wanna skip all that text wall, ill just say this:
The fault you've pointed out is completely tolerable. But keep on working on it, and If your "friend" cant handle it, dump em. It aint easy but it has to be done for YOUR own good. If i were this "friend" I would bear with it fine, and trust that you recognize it and are working on it, and id give you my full support and even help, if you asked for it.
AT ANY RATE, I'll be your friend
(for what little help that'd be over the internet)
One time, recently, I practiced not doing that and it worked alright. I was able to complete Bravely Default by just letting things slide if I lost or something. I guess I could still do that, but it's not very easy I guess.
Alot of people give others crap for giving adivce like: "oh, yeah. Just dont do it."
And the truth is, yeah it is pretty crap advice most of the time. But on the other hand it works wonders for me. Its just certain people i guess.
If you're one of those people who can handle just going against your'e impulses, and perhaps one day even dispelling them, then by all means go ahead. Its not meant to be easy.
Then again if thats something you're sure you cant do, you may need to try something else.
also another point i want to make is
You're choice of friends
ask yourself WHY you hang out with the people you do.
theres also the matter of how they treat you. See theres a balance to these things.
A friend may be good and encouraging, or he me be OVER encouraging to the point of meaningless flattery that does you no good.
or maybe they tear you down? make you feel worthless, of like a failure?
But then again theres a balance, your friend instead of being harsh or overly critical may be kindly keeping you down-to-earth, or helping you keep your ego in check.
Now im not saying the fault does INDEED lie with your friends and NOT you, but it is something to consider HONESTLY with yourself.
True friendship isnt all happiness and roses. Its telling your friend what THEY NEED to hear, helping them when THEY NEED it.
its about fully recognizing the faults in them, but accepting them and living with them.
(assuming the faults arent like super evil or something)
If you wanna skip all that text wall, ill just say this:
The fault you've pointed out is completely tolerable. But keep on working on it, and If your "friend" cant handle it, dump em. It aint easy but it has to be done for YOUR own good. If i were this "friend" I would bear with it fine, and trust that you recognize it and are working on it, and id give you my full support and even help, if you asked for it.
AT ANY RATE, I'll be your friend
(for what little help that'd be over the internet)
