Reply to Re: Rob's Viewpoints #2 - What's your approach?
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i think the power of suggestion comes in here too - like telling a kid to "be careful or you will fall" - is a surefire way for them to fall ( i have tested this and it works 99% of the time - feel bad hehe didnt think it would) one kid high up in a hedge - been there for ages and never thought of falling till u tell them to be careful - it reminds them its possible and they loose their looseness and splat - down they come.
As adults we need to toss off the restrictions our parents placed on us growing up - thats their stuff and we don;t need to take it with us as we move ahead in our lives. Some people always live under rules and restrictions they had as a kid and never realise they don't need to live that way - their choice is fresh if they want to take it - so they never live to their potential or release old hurts because of this - so sad
As adults we need to toss off the restrictions our parents placed on us growing up - thats their stuff and we don;t need to take it with us as we move ahead in our lives. Some people always live under rules and restrictions they had as a kid and never realise they don't need to live that way - their choice is fresh if they want to take it - so they never live to their potential or release old hurts because of this - so sad