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Kerick I believe this is your cry for help because males usually just do this - not discuss it first, so can I borrow your ear for a bit please in the spirit that you are serious.
I agree with the get out and walk, - but that is also one of the signs of depression - walking for hours. If you are depressed and I think you are,as part of what you may need, short term medication can also help get your thoughts on a different path, you start to see the joy in things again. Hang in there nothing and I mean NOTHING is worth taking your own life for ok
Can I be the tough one here - suicide is the most selfish act ever, its not easy - I understand that, but you take yourself out and there are so many people whose lives are effected forever, always wondering why - why didnt they see it - why weren't they able to help prevent it. Your actions also effect others lives forever, it will change people (and I know this because I have attended many many suicides)those left behind will never be the same again and carry guilt till the end of their lives, some will also kill themselves as well because they can't deal with missing the signs for helping you and cannot live with the guilt.
You need to give these people in your life a chance to try to help. Talk to your parents - tell them you feel like ending it, if you can't then talk to the guidance counsellor at school, turn up at your local hospital and tell them how you feel, they have people that can help and will support you to talk to your parents if you cant do it alone. You can also talk to your friends but I really dont believe they know what to do with that information and you are better off talking to someone older.
Kerreck TELL someone around you how you feel, open up and tell them the reasons there is light out the other side of the tunnel. Suicide is a long term solution to a short term problem. Take a chance and trust one person ok, Please! Its nice to talk to people on here but you also need to talk to people in your life because no matter what you think - you are loved ok ... now go and talk to someone!
I agree with the get out and walk, - but that is also one of the signs of depression - walking for hours. If you are depressed and I think you are,as part of what you may need, short term medication can also help get your thoughts on a different path, you start to see the joy in things again. Hang in there nothing and I mean NOTHING is worth taking your own life for ok
Can I be the tough one here - suicide is the most selfish act ever, its not easy - I understand that, but you take yourself out and there are so many people whose lives are effected forever, always wondering why - why didnt they see it - why weren't they able to help prevent it. Your actions also effect others lives forever, it will change people (and I know this because I have attended many many suicides)those left behind will never be the same again and carry guilt till the end of their lives, some will also kill themselves as well because they can't deal with missing the signs for helping you and cannot live with the guilt.
You need to give these people in your life a chance to try to help. Talk to your parents - tell them you feel like ending it, if you can't then talk to the guidance counsellor at school, turn up at your local hospital and tell them how you feel, they have people that can help and will support you to talk to your parents if you cant do it alone. You can also talk to your friends but I really dont believe they know what to do with that information and you are better off talking to someone older.
Kerreck TELL someone around you how you feel, open up and tell them the reasons there is light out the other side of the tunnel. Suicide is a long term solution to a short term problem. Take a chance and trust one person ok, Please! Its nice to talk to people on here but you also need to talk to people in your life because no matter what you think - you are loved ok ... now go and talk to someone!
