Makeing a dmod takes a lot of effort without expecting any reward. Everywhere I see proof that people that can work selflessly like that are happier and better to be around. One problem with posting your feelings is that you are expressing yourself to a machine, and feel o.k. to say anything. But when your name is posted and something negative is expressed to you, it is all the worse, because the written word carries more weight than a spoken word.

  My solution?  I always say things as I would like them said to me. And also I don't use this great board as my social life. I like EVERYONE on this board. I realy do. But I'm only typing on a machine. Have a nice day.:)