nobody seems to be replying to my mails :( i m still hopeful of playing this dmod and i have still one more question

At refuge, when i fill waterfor the people, they come to kill me...eventually i end up killing them all..is this what has to be done, or have i done something wrong?

i read in the previous posts about giving goblins water...but when i went to their village it was deserted...what should i do..u can see i m really badly stuck.

pls help.